Tuesday, February 18, 2014

By Indian standards, this post is completely on time...

Hello All,

so last we chatted I mentioned the trip to Coimbatore that Mariah and I took last Saturday. Coimbatore is a city on the plains about 4 hours away from Kodaikanal that houses over a million people. Because of the rather impressive population, it also houses a four-story shopping mall which includes a movie theater and grocery store. So although I knew a day in Coimbatore would be a great experience, I was more than a bit worried about the drive to and from. Let me remind you all that Kodaikanal is separated from every other plains city by a 2 hour drive along an unfathomably horrible road. I swear that at some point in time this road must have been used as a rite of passage.  Like, boys became men if they made it up and down this road without losing their lunch... something like that. Anyways, on the first ride up to Kodai, my intense excitement helped keep the motion sickness at bay. But after feeling sick just riding on the buses during field trips recently, I had a feeling that this time around the drive would be more than I could stomach... literally. Well, turns out that western medicine can be pretty awesome! I tried a motion sickness patch that I got before leaving Montana and it worked like a charm! Except for waking up really dizzy, I felt totally fine the entire trip (I suppose now is a good time to mention that I also slept for 85% of the drive both ways, but still... hooray for drugs!).

So after about 2 hours, we reached the bottom of the hill. It was still another 2ish hours to Coimbatore, so we decided to take a "bathroom" break. In case you missed it, the word BATHROOM is in quotation marks... this is on purpose. I paid 5 rupees to go behind this roadside snack shack, enter a stall that had no lock, and squat over a hole in the ground. Shout out to Sarah Hendricks at this point if she's reading this, because I owe that lady big time for the travel toilet paper!! I don't even know if I was facing the right direction! ... needless to say, it was an experience that I'm sure I'll have to repeat before getting back to Montana but am perfectly fine postponing for as long as possible. From here on out the drive was fairly uneventful. It was pretty incredible how much denser the traffic was the closer we got to Coimbatore... but besides that there isn't much to report until actually reaching the mall.

Like I said before, this mall was fairly impressive, 4 stories tall with both a grocery store and movie theater. We arrived around 10:30am, and having last eaten at 6:00am, our first stop was the food court. It was a strange feeling being in the mall. I almost had a hard time remembering that I was in southern India still, and not somewhere in America (the complete lack of white people was a not so gentle reminder at times, and Mariah and I were approached and asked for pictures more times than we've ever had in Kodai. But overall it felt very normal). One thing that made it so westernized was the McDonald's, KFC, and Baskin Robbins in the food court. The rest of the shops were all totally Indian, but looking up and seeing the golden arches was kinda weird... not going to lie though, I had a McFlurry and it was wonderful! After the food court we decided to check out the movie theater. We were hoping that the Hobbit was still playing since Mariah and I had both recently finished the book, but alas, there was only one English movie playing and it was the Lego Movie. Things I never envisioned myself doing: seeing the Lego Movie in theaters, seeing the Lego Movie in theaters in India, seeing the Lego Movie in theaters in India with a bunch of high school boys (unbeknownst to our staff member group, a group of high schoolers from KIS arranged for transport down to coimbatore the same day so we ended up seeing them everywhere in the mall... especially McDonald's and KFC :) In the end, the movie wasn't nearly as bad as I was expecting. The theaters were super nice, just as nice if not nice than any we have in Missoula, and for $2 the movie was quite entertaining.

Fun Fact: there are no previews before movies in India. Instead, there is a 15-minute intermission half-way through the movie where they're shown.


PART of the busy food court in the mall. This was looking to my left (towards KFC). On my right, just as far away, was the McDonalds swarming with high schoolers.

So other than the movie, and the eating, the day was spent shopping! For Mariah and I, our main purpose of Coimbatore was to find some more Indian-looking clothing. You know, because once we don the kurthas, we blend right in with everyone else in India.... that was sarcasm, but it does make you feel more incognito even if it's just a little bit. Anyways, we were both able to find a couple of things in Kodai over the past month, but the shops here just can't compare to the selection in the mall. There were department stores everywhere! All with mannequins in the windows sporting the latest saris or kurthas. In all the stores we went to, there was always a western section, but the majority of stuff was kurthas, leggings, and (what I call) Aladdin-pants. The store employees were also very interesting... in my time at the mall I identified 3 personalities. There was the one who stood right next to you to make sure you didn't steal anything. There was the one who was more than willing to help with anything and everything you were doing, regardless if you wanted the help or not. And finally, there was the employee who either didn't speak English, or didn't know why the heck I was in the store. These last ones just look at you like, "Are you lost?" ... in retrospect, I really can't decide which demeanor I found least uncomfortable...

By the end of the day, Mariah and I had made a haul! Multiple kurthas, several leggins, and at least one new pair of Aladdin-pants each (which, by the way, are the most comfortable things I've ever worn. If I see them again, I'm shamelessly buying at least 3 more pairs. They're wonderful.... it's like wearing socially-accepted pajamas. The waist band is drawstring and could probably accommodate the waist of jabba the hut. So they're just the most flowy, breezy things I've ever had.) After sleeping the entire way home, I got back to Kodai around midnight and it was straight to bed!
 This red one is my favorite kurtha! Isn't the design just gorgeous?!


Mariah, Sally (a volunteer high schooler from New Hampshire), and I all sporting our nice Indian clothes.


Now, I was going to take this time to tell you all about my day of teaching last Thursday, but I feel an experience from tonight is more deserving of this post space (don't worry, the post about me teaching is on its way...). So tonight after dinner, Mariah and I return home, bracing ourselves for a night full of grading and lesson planning. We have a window in our living room (the one with the incredible view in the morning) that we usually leave open during the day for the sunlight, but at night it creeps me out if it's not closed. So, as I've done countless times since arriving in Kodaikanal, I walk over, take hold of the curtains, and yank them closed. Normal. But the soft thump I hear as I'm closing the curtains is new. Also new is the object I see falling from the curtain rod, out of the corner of my eye. I bend down to see what it was that had fallen onto the seat cushion below, and IT MOVES!! Thank the lord it wasn't a snake or I probably would have peed my pants AND screamed. As it was, I kept it mostly in check, only letting a decent screech escape as I realized there was a lizard scurrying across our living room bench.

Luckily this was not a big lizard, only 6" or so, but it was quick! Naturally my screech had alerted Mariah, so she came running in (to save the day... seriously big shout out to this girl for deservedly earning the title "Lizard Wrangler" because if it had been up to me, I would have been over sleeping in the neighbors' house tonight). She overcomes brief self-doubt, stares that lizard right in the face, and promptly scoops him up in our pineapple container and delivers him outside. Check that one off the list of things to do in India! In retrospect, of all the animals that could have snuck into the house and dropped unexpectedly from the curtains, I'm quite glad it was just Screech (it didn't feel right not naming him, so before taking him outside and washing the heck out of our pineapple container, we named him "Screech" and took a picture). I'll take a little lizard over a lot of other creatures I've heard live in these parts any day! It just makes me laugh because only in India would you hear daily stories of animals inviting themselves inside (monkeys stealing chocolate out of teachers' desks, squirrels dropping from holes in the ceiling onto the dining room table, etc.) and then come home to house that's raining lizards... life here is definitely not dull!

Well folks, it's officially late. I'm off to bed. Sweet dreams to you all, when you get there. Check back sooner than normal for my next post where I tell you all about the wonders of my day of solo teaching, and the horrors of passion fruit. Miss you!

Monday, February 10, 2014

I'm pretty sure I still have paint on my hands...


Monday January 27th
        One Down, Five to Go... After observing my language arts lesson on prefixes and suffixes this morning, Ms Jessica (my "university supervisor" here in Kodai) graciously said I'm a natural teacher :) As part of the University of Montana curriculum, Ms. Jessica will come in and watch me teach a total of 6 lessons, and facilitate a sit-down meeting for my mid-term and final. Her comments and observations come back with me to Montana in May, and will be considered into my final grade for this semester. All that being said, I really didn't feel nervous until about 8:15am, 15 minutes before I was supposed to teach. At this point in my schooling, teaching feels pretty second nature to me. I don't really get nervous for lessons because I know it will work out, and if I need to, I can BS just fine. But not knowing what Ms. Jessica would be looking for exactly, and teaching a subject that the students have never worked with before, I definitely felt the pressure. In the end, everything went wonderfully. The kids (bless them) were like angels! Maybe they knew it was a big lesson for me and they were taking pity, maybe it was just because it was the first period of the day and they all actually just slept through the lesson... I don't know and I don't care! It went well, and now the first one is out of the way! My second is sometime next week, and by the time the 3rd observation rolls around I will (hopefully) be teaching the majority of an entire unit (which lasts 6 weeks and encompasses all subjects).

Jan 30th
            Tonight Mariah and I went out to dinner with Benji, the drama teacher at KIS, and two volunteers from America who are working at a local orphanage and various other projects to better Kodaikanal. Kate and Sally are both from the east coast (New Hampshire I believe) and very excited to be in India. Sally goes back to the states in a couple of weeks, but Kate will be here until about the time that Mariah and I leave… turns out that she will be moving shortly, and will be our neighbor :) So in addition to having a nice meal outside of the school cafeteria, it was great to meet people from the United States who not only understand what it’s like to be the minority, but also the results of being a woman here…. I think we’ve convinced them to come to dance class this Wednesday too!

Feb 2
            So, I was able to have a pretty cool opportunity today. A couple of days ago, Mariah and I were approached about possibly chaperoning an NHS event (National Honors Society, just like in the US) the upcoming Saturday. The original chaperones had something come up, but since it would only take a few hours Saturday morning we had no problem saying “yes”. We weren’t given many details, just the time and date, and that the students were going to paint the walls of a local orphanage…. How cool right?! Well despite the fact that it was with a bunch of self-centered high schoolers it was an incredible day. (I’ve realized since being in Kodai that I could NEVER teach high school! They are so oblivious to everything around them, and  they apparently get on my nerves very quickly. Of course, just like in the states, this is a generalization. I know not ALL high schoolers are like this. But it seems to be even more prevalent at KIS because the majority of the students come from wealthy backgrounds… like grown-up-with-servants wealthy. This means that their sense of entitlement and superiority is flabbergasting at times… ugh, high schoolers. Point of the story, the only thing that would have made this experience better for me, is working with the younger rather than the older students.) Our group got to the orphanage around 9:30am and half of them started looking for the dirty paint buckets that had been used the weekend prior, while the remaining half started playing with the kids. These kids… sigh…. I was able to speak with the director for a little bit (although I had a difficult time understanding him) and found out that there are currently 79 kids ages 1-12 that live at the orphanage. He described the kids as “full-orphans” and “semi-orphans” explaining that full orphans are the usual definition of the term meaning no living parents, while semi orphans are left at the orphanage by parents who either don’t want them, or can’t afford to keep them.  To see 4 year olds hand washing clothes in buckets, 6 year olds scrubbing pots and pans, and knowing that these are the lucky kids, was pretty rough. Although we were only there a few hours, it was the most humbling, heart wrenching, rewarding experiences I’ve had so far in India.All I can say is, Mom told me I couldn’t bring home a monkey….she said NOTHING about little orphan kids :)

This was one of the highschoolers trying to teach the kids how to count in English. They in exchange, were trying to teach her numbers in Tamil.

This little guy made a game for himself of seeing how high he could climb up the pole before he fell. Every time I looked at him, he'd flash a great big smile and climb a little higher.

These two were my favorites... I must have asked their names 15 times between the two of them, but still couldn't pronounce/remember it for the life of me. They were both very shy, but never strayed too far away from our volunteers.

Mariah and Lacey working hard.


Group picture of Mariah and I with some of the highschoolers and their dubbed "minions" after a long morning of painting.

This group was apprehensive of me taking pictures at first, but were soon more than willing as long as I showed them the pictures after I took them. I ended up having to pry my iPod out of their hands so I could leave :)

From the outside, looking in on the orphanage.


Feb 6th
            Peter Baker from the UofM arrived today! He works in the International Programs Department, so Mariah and I have never met him (much to the dismay of everyone here. They assume that since we’re all from Montana, we not only know each other but are best friends) but he brought us chocolate so I was super excited for his arrival! It was also really nice just to be able to talk with someone face to face about what’s going on in Missoula. We lamented over the lack of Indian food back home, discussed the recent budget cuts at UM, and were able to tell him all about life in Kodai. Supposedly he is going to write up a little something on Mariah and I and put it on the UM website… that’d be kinda cool. He also took a video of us helping teach swing dance club, and said he’ll be sending it to our parents (he really was an awesome guy).  It’s too bad that he only stayed for a couple of days, because it would have been nice to take him on a more thorough Kodai tour. But unfortunately he was just checking in and dropping off some information for graduating seniors about the University of Montana, then he was off to Vietnam on more international business for the University…. Did you know that students who graduate with an International Baccalaureate (like they offer here in KIS) and choose UM for college enter with at least 30 transferred credits?! That’s a year of school that they don’t pay for….pretty sweet deal!


Alright, so I'm officially caught up to this last weekend. Mariah and I took our first trip off the mountain since we arrived here over a month ago. We went to a city called Coimbatore that is big enough to have a 4-story mall, and built in movie theater. I want to be able to tell you all about it in detail, so for now I'm signing off but promising a new post about it very soon. In the meantime, here are a few more post-worthy pictures...

The view from our house in the morning NEVER gets old.

My mom loves me!!! She sent me all sorts of Valentines goodies, and of course an extra toothpaste and toothbrush like a good mom should :) This is the state of the box when it arrived. This doesn't even show the side that had started to rip, or some of the squished contents inside. It was VERY appreciated all the same though. She even sent some Valentine M&M's that I can give to the students.






Tuesday, February 4, 2014

And here goes Part 1...

I know I have about a million things to talk about since I've been a terribly undependable blogger... but I'll post pictures this time, so you'll all forgive me :)

HIKING TO GUNDAR POOL (spelling on that is still uncertain)
    Apparently your prayers were all received loud and clear, because we ended up chaperoning less than 10 middle schoolers, and also had double the original number of guides. We set out at 7:00am Saturday morning, and weren't due back until 2:00 in the afternoon. This was a "B" hike, which meant we should expect a longer and steeper hike than the previous "A" hike to Pillar Rock, and it definitely delivered. I've decided that India has a sense of humor by the way.... or at least whoever designed these hikes does. You start off "hiking" right on the roads leading out of Kodaikanal, and although there were some steeper parts, I soon found myself thinking 'what a ripoff to call this a hike!' I mean when we hike in Missoula, we may follow a path, but that's a far cry from literally walking for 2 hours on the road with vehicles zooming by every 2 minutes. Well someone must have had a laugh, because just when I've had enough of walking past buildings and stray dogs, we veer straight off the road right into the surrounding jungle. Forget road, there wasn't even a freaking path for the rest of this hike! I felt like I should have been leading the pack wielding a machete, hacking through brush and tracking wild animals (I did step in bison poop, but I don't think that counts). There was this one section though where the forest opened up and we could see for miles across this valley. It was incredible! Like walking through Jurassic Park. It was unlike anything I've ever experienced, and it absolutely took my breath away. Staring at this completely exotic land, hearing monkeys hollering in the distance, it made me want to see every one of these views. Just travel everywhere and really understand just how big the world is... Don't worry, Mom, I'm still coming home in May. Just dreaming a bit :)
This is one of many "knots" that our guides looked for. For decades, people have been tying knots in the trees along the path to signify to others that they are going the right way.



REPUBLIC DAY
     The next day (Sunday) was Republic Day, a holiday in remembrance of the introduction of the Indian Constitution in 1950. Church on campus was held early to allow for a flag raising ceremony, as well as a semi-traditional Indian dance which was choreographed and preformed by some of the senior class. Not only were the streets flooded with tourists, Republic Day also brought out some of the more flamboyant local fashions. Everyone from students to staff were dressed in their "Sunday best" to celebrate the holiday, and I have never been more thrilled to be at an International School! Not only were there sari's and kurtah's like crazy (all bedazzled, brilliantly colored, and wonderfully original) but some other students chose to don the formal attire of their home countries. Many of the Korean students wore kimonos, and others (obviously more Westernized) showed up in what could be considered prom dresses. Even Mariah and I tried to get into it by wearing kurtahs we had purchased just a couple days before. After all the festivities on campus had ended, we (much to our fellow staff members' dismay) decided to check out the Sunday Market. This is like the Farmer's Market on steroids! So much color, so many people, and more produce than I've ever seen in one place. Everywhere you look someone is sitting cross-legged amongst mounds of potatoes, carrots, or pineapples, insistent that their crop is the best. Despite the mass amounts of people, I love it! I mean how can you not with all that color?!

 The seniors preforming their choreographed dance... some of those saris were BEAUTIFUL!!

Mariah and I in our new Indian clothes!




Some of the middle school students wanted a picture.

The streets leading to the Sunday Market.... this was just trying to get there!


Produce for miles! They sell it by the kilo or half kilo, and weigh it with a scale they hold in the air.... it's a very subjective weighing system.


I promise a continuation in the near future! But I have to start heading home now.... love you all!